When trying to achive something should you fully commit yourself for getting that goal so you wouldn't regret later on or should you hold back on it a bit so you wouldn't get so badly hurt if it fails. Both ways has its own pros and cons but which is more better in most circumstances.

 

If you try your best you could say in the end that you've done everything possible but if it still didn't go your way then tough. But by doing that, you risk your whole heart on it and it will, trust me, hurt you painfully and will always leave a scar somewhere inside you.

 

So is holding back a wiser thing to do? Take it slow and see how it develop over time, don't rush things too much. Maybe it is, but it could also lead to regrets afterwards and regret is as anyone would know very very painful itself.

 

Which one is better? We would never know but we will have to choose either way none the less without knowing the result. So best wishes for all of you out there. Hope you've made the right decision.